![]() It felt amazing, but I regret the timing, the girl, and not using a condom.” - Jon, 20ħ. I wasn’t really ready, but I just went with it. I made her laugh and she thought I was cute, so we started dating. To this day, I still haven’t told her that she took my virginity.” - Tyler, 21Ħ. We continued hooking up for the next few months until one day she told me she was getting back together with her ex-boyfriend. Although I didn’t realize my romantic dream, I didn’t and still don’t care. It was good, but I was so nervous, I didn’t truly enjoy it. Neither of us planned to have sex, but it happened. Three weeks later, we came back to my room and things were different. We met when she started hitting on me at a diner after a party. She was a junior in college and I was freshman. As a guy, you feel a certain pressure to lose your virginity, but I still wanted my first time to be special. “I lost my virginity when I was 18 years old. She might have known that I was a virgin (or thought I was bad).” - Isaiah, 20ĥ. I was nervous and excited at the same time, and it didn’t last very long. ![]() I thought telling girls that I had never had sex would hurt my chances. I never told her it was my first time because of male stereotypes - I didn’t want to seem inexperienced. We just cuddled, kissed, and went slowly from there. On our third date, we were watching movies at her place and getting along well. Two days later, we became official.” - Landon, 22Ĥ. We laughed when we decided to leave the bedroom doors wide open, since it was important to hear people coming back. We didn’t really know what we were doing, but it wasn’t awkward at all because we trusted each other a lot. She was staying at my family’s house for the weekend - the first time either of us had met another’s parents - and when we realized everyone had left for a few hours one morning, we gave sex a shot. We got really serious, really quickly, basically spending all our weekends and some weekday time together. “We had been hooking up and hanging out for about three weeks when I was 21. We were so busy hooking up that we forgot to check if she was asleep.” - Jake, 19ģ. Five minutes in, we heard a voice say, ‘What are you guys doing?!’ It was her roommate - sitting upright, staring at us from her bed. When we got back to her dorm, we went at it. In the Uber home, we started flirting and making out. One night, we were both coming back from a party. The girl I lost my virginity with was a good friend of mine. “I was 18 and in my first semester of college. We fumbled around with the condom in the dark, but eventually realized it would be easier with the lights on.” - Jay, 18Ģ. We waited for her parents to go to bed, and after what seemed like hours, they did. After waiting two or three nights out of anxiety, we were finally able to share the experience. “I had just turned 17 and my girlfriend and I had been dating for a few months when we decided it was the right time. To help you understand what it might be like, below, 16 guys get real about the first time they had sex - including how it happened and how they felt afterward.ġ. While everyone’s experience varies, hearing about others’ experiences can help you determine if you’re ready and navigate your own first time. It can take time to understand and learn what you like and don’t like sexually, and what turns you on. You might orgasm the first time you have sex, or you might not, and that’s totally normal. ![]() Your first sexual experience with a partner might involve vaginal, anal, or oral sex, or no penetration at all. What matters most is that you and your partner both consented to sex and that you’re using protection. But it’s so important to remember that everyone’s experience with first-time sex is different, and that the definition of sex and “losing your virginity” varies from person to person. It might feel awkward, exciting, confusing, or a combination of all those feelings and more. Having sex for the first time can be a big decision.
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